Do you want more sex in your marriage? Try this...

Most men do.

Even men who have good marriages and faithful, submissive wives.

In fact, these are the kind we are really speaking to today. If your marriage is “frigid” and you have real relational problems, there are deeper issues that need to be addressed. Our advice today may help move things in the right direction, but don’t expect a panacea.

On the other hand, if you have good sex sometimes, but just want more, here’s what to do:

Tell your wife.

We know that will sound frustratingly simplistic, but bear with us for a second. We want to explain first why this simple tactic is often helpful, and second how to do it in a way that will work.

On the first point, the key thing to understand is that men and women tend to be ignorant of how the other works.

That’s because we always interpret how other people think and act based on how we think and act.

You see this constantly in all kinds of ways. A common one with women is thinking that if they have a degree and a high-powered job, men will find…